Monday, February 9, 2009

My Opinion of the Grammys

First and foremost, I have to say, if you're not on Twitter, you need to HURRY up and sign up!!! B/c the commentary on there was far more entertaining than the actual Grammys themselves...I was very happy for Jennifer Hudson winning Best R&B Album category, she definitely deserved it...not b/c of what she's been through, but I generally feel like her talent and vocal ability is always overshadowed by another female vocalist who shall remain nameless *ahem*...it was great to see Hudson's talent recognized and respected by her peers...it was also great to see Whitney Houston look somewhat healthy for once...it looks like she's trying to fill out a lil bit and regain some sort of a healthy lifestyle...good for her!



Normally, Diddy is always impeccably dressed for awards shows...the Grammys this yr? Hmmm not so much...although his casual look wasn't bad, he just seemed uncharacteristically out of place



Ok, we're all thinking it...WTF WAS KANYE THINKIN??? I'm really starting to think he's headed towards a Britney-caliber meltdown...I don't even know where to begin w/ this put-on, so I'm just gonna say it was F'd up from ground up...he reminds me of the guy from the old school House Party or like Lionel Richie in "All Nite Long"...however, I admire 'Ye's ability to stand out and set his own trend...regardless of how ridiculous he looks



It's safe to say that everybody was tuned in to the Grammys for 1 reason and 1 reason only....we wanted to see if M.I.A's water was gonna break right durin the telecasts...the people in the pit and the 1st few rows were all given complimentary splash guards for safety reasons...but to our disappointed, she and Hip Hop's greatest rappers alive gave a very lackluster performance for Swagger Like Us...I get that they were going for the whole throwback Rat Pack thing...but it was just wack...realistically, I think that song is better left to be performed on the "other" awards shows

T.I gave 2 great performances for the night...to me, he was on the 1 who really showed style and swag during the S.L.U performances...and he finally performed 1 of my favorite songs from Paper Trail...the Timbaland-produced, Dead and Gone...I LOVE THIS SONG!!! And I've been dyin to see him perform it live w/ Justin Timberlake...they're about as good collabo as T-Wayne


Speaking of which, THANK GOD T Pain didn't get a chance to perform w/ any of artists he did stuff for in 2008...I give credit where its due, but I'm tired of seein the guy...Lil Wayne took hom 3 out of his 8 Grammys, congrats to him! Ne-Yo won for Best R&B song w/ "Miss Independent", and the rest of the winners? Blah, who cares? You can check out the full list HERE ----->>>>>>http://www.eonline.com/uberblog/b98902_winners_complete_list_from_2009_grammys.html

Follow up on the Aquan Lewis story

A few days ago, I posted the news article a young 10 yr old boy who was found dead in his school's bathroom...this is yet another tragic incident involving a child out in the Chicago area

Over the weekend, I was reading a follow-up report that stated Aquan Lewis' mother was allowed to inspect the school's bathroom and she reported "there is no way he could have done this himself." So she's trying to get an independent autopsy done...which is highly recommended...I'm not a mother, but I can only imagine how it feels to think that your seemingly happy 10 yr old child could have the cognition to think of suicide...kids this age are typically resilient...they have so much going in their young lives that they don't have time to be sad, to the point of suicide...I would think that rather than be depressed or have thoughts of suicide, that kids in this age group would lash out and act out

Supposedly Aquan had said to a teacher earlier that day that he wanted to kill himself...now if a kid says that, doesn't it seem like a automatic red flag? As a teacher, wouldn't you tell the 1st colleague or counselor and try to intervene on some level? Call the parents and make them aware of the child's mental state? Schools everywhere are feeling the strain of our tough economy...but to me, that's not something an adult should EVER overlook or toss aside

Now some people want to make this an issue about race...and I don't see it that way...I see this as a magnifying glass on the accountability of school officials...it's about the accountability and responsibility that we have as adults to our children...I look at it in these terms...let's say the kid was being home-schooled and he'd hanged himself on a closet rack or something in the home, who would the police investigate 1st? The parents? Why? B/c that's who was in custody of the child at the time...black, white, rich, poor, inner-city, suburbs, all of that is irrelevant...I feel like this is a classic example where maybe there were signs or pointers that clearly showed the adults in this kid's life that something was wrong...and they would've saw it had they just paid attention


To Be Continued...

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Cuts for the week 1/31-2/7

Bobby Creekwater "I Mean It"
http://www.mediafire.com/?ej2lzzzeyjz

Ginuwine (TGT) "Can't Blame You"
http://www.mediafire.com/?iillj2yn0zm

Jagged Edge ft Yung Boss "Lemme Be Your Superhero"
http://www.mediafire.com/?weqettlfrmn

Juelz Santana ft Lil Wayne "Rock Star"
http://www.mediafire.com/?gtjzcnqwmhn

Lady GaGa ft Kalenna "Kaboom"
http://www.mediafire.com/?tyykehvnzjn

Lil Wayne "Prom Queen"
http://www.mediafire.com/?vh2iyzh2jqy

RL (of Next) "Bomb"
http://www.mediafire.com/?nh1kiddmxk0

The-Dream ft Fabolous "Rockin That Shit" remix
http://www.mediafire.com/?dcjrmqxhmgn

Alchemist ft Maxwell & Twista "Smilin"
http://www.mediafire.com/?2qnuim42ije

Dawn Richard (of Danity Kane) "Falls Away"
http://www.mediafire.com/?wdjmzm1wtmk

DJ Suss One "Who Shot Ya 2009"
http://www.mediafire.com/?nzokz0nhlm5

Electrik Red "Friend Lover"
http://www.mediafire.com/?dmf4zglzm1l

J Holiday "Make That Sound"
http://www.mediafire.com/?twmymuon5hn

Lil Wayne "Amazing Love"
http://www.mediafire.com/?uynqch2nwyz

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Freestyle session of the week

I'm a huge fan of freestyles, sometimes moreso than written music...I always check out Green Lantern's show...and this is 1 of my fav recent freestyle sessions...big ups to BK finest!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Aquan Lewis, 10, found in school's bathroom

I by no shape or form wanna turn this into a news/gossip based blog...but there are things that I feel are blog-worthy...this is 1 of those things

Coroner: Death of boy, 10, at Ill. school suicide

By MICHAEL TARM – 4 hours ago

EVANSTON, Ill. (AP) — A 10-year-old boy reportedly found hanging from a coat hook at his suburban Chicago school took his own life, according to a preliminary coroner's office ruling on Wednesday. A daily ledger released by the Cook County medical examiner noted "hanging" and "suicide" as the cause of death for fifth-grader Aquan Lewis, who was found unresponsive in a bathroom at the Evanston school Tuesday afternoon and was pronounced dead at a hospital Wednesday morning.

The boy's distraught mother, Angel Lewis, left a school district building hours earlier, not speaking directly to reporters but saying over and over, "He should have been accounted for. He should have been accounted for."

A janitor at Oakton Elementary School, Elliott Lieteau, said he found Aquan on the floor of the restroom and that others told him the boy had been pulled off a hook. Lieteau said he performed CPR.

Speaking before the coroner's finding, a community activist who accompanied Lewis and acted as her spokeswoman said Lewis did not believe her boy committed suicide.

"She sent her son to school yesterday morning in good spirits," Dawn Valenti said. "The next thing she knows she's getting a call that her son died. ... He did not commit suicide. There was nothing wrong with her son."

Evanston police Cmdr. Tom Guenther said the coroner's finding of suicide would not affect how police conduct the investigation. Asked if the finding ruled out any possibility of foul play or an accident, Guenther said, "I don't think we're going to jump to any conclusions at this point."

The medical examiner's office did not return a message from The Associated Press seeking details about the suicide finding.

Before leaving the school district building, Aquan's mother stood at the back of the room during a news conference with police and school officials, crying and sometimes shaking her head as officials fielded questions.

At the news conference, Guenther repeatedly declined to provide any details on the investigation and would only call Aquan's death "an isolated incident."

"It's devastating," said school board member Jerome Summers. "Nobody anticipates the death of their child when they send their kid to school."

School officials still are trying to determine when the boy left his class to go to the bathroom, said Superintendent Hardy Murphy. There are no security cameras inside the school.

Counselors met with students and parents Wednesday. Several parents who attended a school meeting would not give their names, but said school officials provided little information about the death; others said school officials instructed them to avoid talking to the media.

Two police cars were parked outside the sprawling, three-story red brick school, which has about 420 students in kindergarten through 5th grade.

Suicides among children as young as Aquan are extremely rare. There were on average just 10 U.S. suicides among 10-year-olds a year between 1999 and 2005, according to statistics from the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention's National Center for Injury Prevention and Control. By comparison, there were an average of about 75 suicides a year among 13-year-olds, and about 250 a year among 16-year-olds.

Maria Patino of Evanston said her fourth-grade daughter, a student at the school, was frightened and confused about what had happened.

Her daughter asked, "Mommy, is the person going to come for me, too?" because she thought somebody had intentionally hurt the boy.

"I didn't know what to say," Patino said in Spanish. "It's too hard for a child to understand."

Third-grader Michael Barrera, 9, talked to reporters as he left the school with his mother. He said he was uncomfortable at school Wednesday, so he was leaving early.

"My mom doesn't think I should stay at school and should come home and rest at the house so that I'm not so sad about what happened," the boy said, a backpack over his shoulder.

Many students were frightened Tuesday as news spread that a classmate was seriously hurt and rumors spread that he might have been killed, Barrera said.

"I was scared that nothing would happen to me or my friends," he said.

There have been other cases of students hanged at school.

Last February, a 7-year-old boy in Austin, Texas died after being hanged by his shirt from a coat hook in a school dressing room; authorities said he might have been playing a game in which students jumped from bench to bench while trying to touch the room's ceiling.

And in 2005, a Philadelphia third-grader was found unconscious and hanging by his shirt collar on a hook in a school coatroom, but lived. Both cases were ruled accidents.
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I absolutely feel for this mother and the children at that school...when you think of an elementary school, it's supposed to be the safest place for your child...it should be the 1 place where a child should feel unequivocally safe from the chaos in the world...I realize that the investigation is on-going, but I just can't see a 10 yr old committing suicide...not like that

I'll be following this story as it continues and doing updates on the show, as well as on the blog

My Favorite Vibe cover!



It's about time Vibe stepped up their game and did a full Style issue...I'm really happy to see Vibe finally doing some "themed" issues...I really dug the Tabloid issue they did in January...sometimes you gotta step away from the generic iconic covers...so this is a step in a real exciting direction!!!

Definitely made a good pick w/ Keyshia Cole as the cover image...I'm so sick of seeing Beyonce and Rihanna...Keyshia has a more relatable, everyday people style...she is the epitome of fashion growth from her 1st CD to now...the issue will be on newsstands everywhere Feb 17th

Jadakiss ft Faith Evans "Letter To B.I.G"

I like the video, it's a little different for Jadakiss...I just would've liked to see actual footage of Big, instead of footage from the movie